Breaking Addictions

Your soul (mind, will and emotions) and body are where addictions are formed. Your spirit is where you can break them. When Jesus talks about “possessing your soul” (in Luke 21:19), he means to be in control of yourself.

Broadly speaking we have 3 or 4 dominant addictions. They are: The need for connection with others, the need for certainty (stability) in our life, the need for significance, and the need for variety. When all four of these needs are met at the same time an addiction can be formed. Please keep in mind that not all addictions are undesirable. For example, if we are addicted to healthy diet and exercise, it would be regarded as a good addiction.

Being “strong in spirit” is key to forming good addictions (Luke1:80). But there is always a battle within against this. It has been found experimentally that we are unaware of 60-70% of our internal dialogue, or thinking. So, there is a lot of space that we need control in order to avoid bad addictions. Your standing (how God sees you) and your state of mind (how you see yourself) may be quite different. However, if you are “strong in spirit” your standing and state will be the same (congruent).

Being transformed by the renewing of your mind occurs when you deliberately fill your mind with what God says ie. What the bible says. If you make this your unconscious dialogue, you will become “strong in spirit”. You will then be more able to manage your soul against internal opposition.

If you allow yourself to be led by your head (mind), you have no chance; you are effectively dead. If you are led by your spirit, your head can be directed by revelation knowledge: You can actually receive from Holy Spirit. Also, even your body can become fine-tuned so that your 5-senses are responsive to Him. Further, you may also find that you can pick up what is in the atmosphere, or the environment around you. This breaking of controlling powers within and around you can extend to people groups and even nations. What I am saying is this: Our objective, as Christians, should be to addict ourselves to the anointing (of Holy Spirit) and to break every other addiction.

What are you addicted to? Most of us are addicted to something: A computer game, a sport, shopping, DIY, another person, a club, a substance. Remember, there are both good and bod addictions.

God is offering to you an area of His genius. The gifts of the Holy Spirit make you look like a genius, because you are accessing His mind and thoughts. This will always out-manoeuvre any opposition you will face. You were designed by God to function in this way.

The question is do you want to be involved in this? It’s for your benefit as well as the benefit of others, even those close to you.

Read Part Two: Breaking Addictions 2 - How To Be Strong In Spirit


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